Womens are stupid.

[Teedy]

So, I'm with this girl, who I've dated before, and it never works out. I don't know why we tried again, anywho, I've contemplated the breaking it up, for good, and plan to, and she was here tonight, mentioned it because I'm acting weird, and still lets me do whatever to her! She knows it's coming, but lets me get away with anything. I stick with it because she's so comfortable with her body, which is above average and lets me get away with so much, it's good. However, we are good friends outside the relationship, always have been, and I have convos with her that I have with no one else. We're also going on a skiing trip to the mountains next weekend. I don't want to ditch her before then, but I don't want to screw up the trip. I only get to be sexual with her if we're in a relationship however.

So, my advice I need lies in several categories.

Do it now or later? If I do it now, I jeapordize the trip despite how good friends we are, she will need recovery time, obviously. If I leave it, that's lying to her, and there is nothing more in the world I hate than lying to people about emotions, other than emotionally hurting others.

Secondly, I treat her, roughly at times, by nature I'm VERY sarcastic and generally a bit of a dick, that doesn't change just because I'm with her. So my question here is, why do women put up with stupidity? This girl is not doing it because she can't do better or because she knows it's all there is, trust me, she's more intelligent than that and we've had the discussion and she can't answer the question even for herself.

[Daerana]

why does the relationship not work out?

[BlindSite]

She's like a friend that you get to fuck?

Most of the time these relationships fizzle because people complicate them talk to her, say you don't want it to happen and learn to walk away when an argument escalates.

[Teedy]

Mmmm no, we are considered a couple, because no sexing if we aren't. It doesn't work because she's somewhat religious, in a manner that I would never be able to be, and I just can't deal with some of her personality traits, they're not bad things, just not something I will ever be with lastingly.

[BattleWhack]

Well, instead of just breaking it off, I'd suggest talking to her about these traits that you are not kosher with. I'm about as un-religious as you can get, so I know where you're coming from. But no person is going to be perfect to you, so maybe she can change a little bit to where you can both feel comfortable together. From what it sounds like, you got a pretty good thing going, aside from a few things that (could) be changed.

And for the other thing, for some reason some girls like that attitude you got. I'm the same way. Some girls want a bad boy, they've already got a pussy, they don't need another one with legs.

My two cents

[Psyche]

And for the other thing, for some reason some girls like that attitude you got. I'm the same way. Some girls want a bad boy, they've already got a pussy, they don't need another one with legs.


ahha. that's actually kinda true. women don't like being the ones that wear the pants in the relationship

[Teedy]

Some do, hahaha it's not even that entirely also. I like what's their and value her opinion, but I just don't see myself being here forever either, it's not someone I'd want to be with lastingly if you catch it, just a plethora of things really. I'll have to do it sooner or later, it's more that I just like sharing. ^_^

[BattleWhack]

Hey man, unless she's hinting at serious future plans, then she's obviously just in it for the fun too. Just enjoy the ride, and if she mentions commitment, then bust out the "Listen, your great, and it's a blast being with you, but I'm just not ready to commit yet, and if you need some time and space, I totally understand."

;)

[rovens]

Just get as much sex as possible and leave her as a broken husk of a person.

[Teedy]

I've done that to many a lady before hahahah and I think I shall do it again. The only problems are:

1: I don't care about doing it now, but I feel horrible hurting other people.
2: For some damned reason, womens fall so hard for me, not to tug my own chain or anything, but I seem to be able to command so much of their affection so quickly, it's good and bad.

[Psyche]

I've done that to many a lady before hahahah and I think I shall do it again. The only problems are:

1: I don't care about doing it now, but I feel horrible hurting other people.
2: For some damned reason, womens fall so hard for me, not to tug my own chain or anything, but I seem to be able to command so much of their affection so quickly, it's good and bad.

thats bc you're an artist. women like strong men but expressive men as well

[Teedy]

I suppose, being me is interesting some days. :D

[BlindSite]

Hey man, unless she's hinting at serious future plans, then she's obviously just in it for the fun too. Just enjoy the ride, and if she mentions commitment, then bust out the "Listen, your great, and it's a blast being with you, but I'm just not ready to commit yet, and if you need some time and space, I totally understand."

;)

I agree, most women don't know what they really want till their mid to late twenties at the earliest anyway.