Bit of a dilemma involving women, race and mates

[BlindSite]

OK, now, for some background, I've got a bunch of mates I've stuck with for years.

One of them I've known since I was 6, another since I was 7 and my other mates all through highschool. We know each other inside and out personality wise and well as a result I'm having some misgivings about something.

I've never really found asian women attractive. Yeah, sure I'm a dude so I mean, if its hot and it does it for me and hell I'd be there to tear it up. I'm not a big asian fanboy though like some people and I'm certainly not a person who's turned off by race just at times by physical attributes attributed to a race.

Last night I met this girl who's about two months younger than I am, loves tattoos (i've got one and am getting more) and has some tasteful ones herself, enjoys smoking (i smoke) while she drinks and also wants to get into journalism and creative writing, the two fields I'm studying.

We talked for about forty minutes getting to know each other and then went and danced and drank for a bit before I left to head off to another club. I met up with her later in the night and we exchanged numbers.

Usually if I go out I look for a quick hook up maybe exchange numbers if I think I can get sex at a later date and just have fun, but I can honestly say this one was a little different. She seemed to be more interested than most have been in the past before she started drinking.

The thing is though, my mates were already talking shit to me about hooking up with an asian chick because none of them are attracted, at all to asians. They talked to her a bit while she was with me and agreed, yeah she's a nice girl and seemed to have a great personality but they wouldn't be interested in much else.

My quest for advice is really, should I keep going and try to see where I get with her and keep it from my friends, or simply tell them to get fucked and be open? Which could lead to some serious issues.

[Teedy]

Buds just rag on you for picking some different shit. If you're into her, that's perfectly fine. Guys don't care as much about your sig other compared to women.

[FaKToR]

You're upset because you don't have a girl your friends would want to do?

[BlindSite]

No, my dilemma is whether or not to bring her out with my mates when we plan to meet up next week, or just to go off with her because I'm not sure how they'll react to her.

[Psyche]

fuck what your friends think. do what makes you happy

[Captain Colon]

They said they like her, they just don't want to pork her. At worst I think you'll just get ribbed a bunch.



Get her to teach you ancient asian martial arts secrets.

[Col. Psycho]

hey faktor, stay out of this section because i can see you'll give more hate than advice. :/

blindsite, if you want to be with this girl, then do it. at the end of the day, your friends arent going to be the one that cuddles up to you on cold nights, has amazing VAGINAL sex with you, cares about you in that feminine way, and generally wants to be with you and love you as her man. unless of course your mates got sex changes and became gay, but yeah you get my point lol.

if she makes you happy, then go for it. if your friends are so great and have known you for so long, they'll accept it and stick by you.

[Captain Colon]

blindsite, if you want to be with this girl, then do it. at the end of the day, your friends arent going to be the one that cuddles up to you on cold nights, has amazing VAGINAL sex with you, cares about you in that feminine way, and generally wants to be with you and love you as her man.
well neither is this girl OHHHHHHHHHHH SNAP d:D

[maggie]

CC, not helpful. This is the advice forum, for giving advice. Preferably the helpful sort.

Blindsite, I've never met a man that would ditch a mate because of his choice of female (unless she was some obnoxious wretch). Just because they don't want to hit it, doesn't mean you should be (or act as though you are) ashamed that you do want to hit it.

[pk!]

your "friends" are racists and you should have nothing further to do with them.

[Captain Colon]

CC, not helpful. This is the advice forum, for giving advice. Preferably the helpful sort.

Blindsite, I've never met a man that would ditch a mate because of his choice of female (unless she was some obnoxious wretch). Just because they don't want to hit it, doesn't mean you should be (or act as though you are) ashamed that you do want to hit it.
I already gave helpful advice so nyahhhhhh d:D

[Gopats]

You need a separate time for friends and for bitches, some of my friends don't get that :/

[FaKToR]

hey faktor, stay out of this section because i can see you'll give more hate than advice. :/

I needed to clarify what the problem was exactly in order to be of assistance and after reading that all I came away with was "his friends aren't attracted to her" which doesn't sound like a terrible problem to me.

[Teedy]

No, it isn't a terrible problem. They'll rib and such, hell I dated a girl my friends referred to as a dog, jokingly, and eventually I found myself not even caring anymore that they made the jokes. If it bothers you that they'll make mention of things, then talk to 'em. They won't rib her when you're with her, they'll try to make YOU look bad and be nice to her. You'll get ribbed for being with her seperately, but if they're good mates, they won't be too harsh on you.

[MGCeilidh]

They said they like her, they just don't want to pork her.

I fail to see the downside here TBH...