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Airborne506
April 29th, 2007, 03:37 PM
STOP. HAMMERTIME.



































Ok, here it goes. I met this girl a few weeks back at a party here at school and she was cool, cute too. To my surprise we made out that night. A couple weeks later the same thing happens. Two weeks after that, this past thursday I went and hung out in her room cause I heard from one of her friends that she kinda liked me. I didn't think too much of it, cool, someone likes me. It was nice because I hadn't really talked to her all that much (too busy kissing lololol), but she turned out to be really cool, likes a lot of the same shows as me, same music, good sense of humor, etc. So anyways, friday night we go out to a party, I leave with her, we go back to her room, make out and watch arrested development til like 5 am. Then last night I find her at a party again and we go back to her room. I am pretty fucking drunk by this point much drunker than the night before, and we start to hook up again, and then she proposes sex. I don't even know what the hell I said, she had a condom, I used it, we had "sex" if you can call it that because I didn't even cum. Now theres 3 weeks left in the semester, I knew I wasn't going to start anything now, it would be stupid. I do like this girl though and I feel really bad about having sex even though she wanted it. It fucks my whole thought process up when I add that in to how I feel. I know I probably sound like a bitch but it was my first time doing anything like that. I regret it, and I shouldn't have done it, and I feel like a fucking mess. Should I tell her how I feel? Do I even continue to talk to her?

Summary: I like girl, I nail girl, I don't know how to feel.

BattleWhack
April 29th, 2007, 03:48 PM
Good christ. Dude, your not doing anything wrong, you've just had a possibly good relationship dropped in your lap.

My hard nosed advice: Stop letting your crazy doubts and emotions fool you into thinking this is more than what it is. It's pretty clear she digs you, unless she's just a total slut. So just go along for the ride, and see what happens. If in three weeks, a month, two months, it doesn't work out, hey, it doesn't work out. You'll kick yourself more for not letting it happen later on down the line when your alone and lonely. Those "what ifs" fucking suck, lemme tell ya.


If you feel you MUST tell her that your not into a relationship, be very, very, very careful, because you just doinked her, and she's gonna take it badly, like she's not good enough, or that there is something wrong with her.

That's all I got at the moment.

Chunkywheats
April 29th, 2007, 10:16 PM
You make out with a girl twice, but then you don't realize that she likes you until her friends tell you?! WTF?!

She has a vagina, yes?

You have a penile structure, yes?

Seems like a match made in heaven.

I agree with BW. I would probably stick around and see where the party ends.

and, If you aren't ready to fuck this chick, then don't. Just tell her that You'd prefer to get to know her first or some bullshit like that.

OMFG it g00
April 29th, 2007, 11:34 PM
ok
hrm, I understnad how you feel because my nerves are made of rubber
however...i would suggest...talking to her about it
what do you two think your status is? if she wants to date? work out the considerations of that, if she wants to fuck more....excelent

alternatively if you fuck her sober and make a better showing of yourself it might ease your mind to, depending on what specifically is eating you

HodgeMASHEEN MkIII
April 30th, 2007, 12:19 AM
Don't have sex until you're dating.

Sex ruins everything without some sort of mutually shared relationship.